How To Pull Off A Wedding Without A “Hitch”
A wedding is easily one of the most memorable occasions in the human experience. The loving relationship at the core of a wedding has a great deal to do with its memorability, of course, but careful planning and hard work make a huge difference, too. Here are a few tips that can help make a wedding even more memorable:
One of the most awkward moments at a wedding can be the bouquet toss. If women don’t want to get involved they shouldn’t be pressured to, so let the DJ know not to say anything to upset the guests. Take a poll before the wedding to see if anyone is really interested in participating and if not, skip it!
When figuring out your seating plan, make sure that tables only include people who know each other and who most definitely LIKE each other! Don’t seat your cousin with your boss if he once fired her for being late or your Mom and your Dad who happen to be divorced.
Instead of spending so much for a multi-layered wedding cake, opt instead for a multi-layered confection of mini tarts or sweet cupcakes. These are more affordable, versatile, and easily served than a two-story wedding cake. Instead of eating cake off a paper napkin, you can give your guests the option to nab a sweet treat on the way out. A decorative container, such as a takeout box, is far more convenient.
If you’ve asked a family member or friend to photograph your wedding, make sure that person really wants to do it. Don’t pressure anyone because he or she may end up so stressed out that the photographs they take don’t turn out as expected. If the photo are ruined in any way, don’t take it out on the person you asked! They did the best they could.
A relative or friend can serve as your assistant, as often the only requirement for the job is being able to haul your gear. They can also be of assistance in rounding everyone up for the group photographs, and this will make sure no one is left out.
Keep your toasts short and to the point. Long, rambling stories about that time you were in college and went on a long road trip together start out cute but end up in yawns when they take too long. If you have a funny story to share, make sure that it is less than three minutes long.
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Give the children who attend your wedding some responsibility to keep them occupied. If they have to guard the ring with their life, or count how many people come in the doors, they’ll have something to do and it should keep the boredom at bay. They may need to have different tasks to keep occupied, though, as they could become tedious.
Start planning your wedding ceremony as early as possible. By doing this you will have plenty of time to shop around for the best deals on flowers, dresses, venues, music, photographers, cakes, entertainment, inventions, catering, etc., rather than having to pay an expensive price for whatever is available last minute.
Add color, texture, and pop to a country or nature-inspired ceremony or reception theme with rustic and vintage containers and decor. Enamel pots, watering cans, and tin washtubs are perfect for displaying wedding programs, favors, or butter mints. Cleaned, tinted jelly jars and terracotta flowerpots make attractive, charming holders for scented tea lights and votive candles.
About a month before you are having your wedding, go on a diet. On this diet, try to reduce the amount of fats, sugars and carbohydrates that you put into your body. This will allow you to maintain the figure that you want and fit into your dress when the wedding comes.
Planning is everything in weddings. Make sure that you have everything taken care of months in advance, or you may find you’ve missed something silly like flowers and can’t find anyone to provide it at the last minute. It’s very important to have the wedding set and scheduled far in advance so that unexpected hitches can be dealt with in time.
When it comes to weddings, be sure that you consider the pros and cons if you are considering a destination wedding. This is important because while these types of weddings can be wonderful, they can often cause a large burden on those who you wish to have at your wedding.
Ask your friends and family for flowers from their yards to use to decorate your wedding. Each flower will come connected with many treasured memories. The result will be no less impressive than if you spent thousands on a professional wedding decorator. Just as importantly, you’ll have more money to invest in your new home.
Distribute disposable cameras to those that attend your wedding
Distribute disposable cameras to those that attend your wedding. Make sure to ask each guest to take as many shots as they can. You’ll undoubtedly get some priceless returns for your effort. Informal wedding shots are often the best.
The easiest way to keep things in order when you are planning for your wedding is to enlist the help of one or two of your friends or family members. Have these two or so people be your go-to when you are not sure about wedding details or just need advice and it will be a lot easier on yourself in the long run.
It might be a good idea to provide a place to spend the night if your guests are coming from far away or plan on driving home after the party. Excess drinking is unavoidable at wedding parties, so make sure people don’t feel pressured to drive themselves home if they’ve had a few too many.
Every wedding is special and unique – even more so than the two people whose union calls for the occasion. Many people contribute to a truly memorable wedding in ways great and small. This article offers just a few humble suggestions to assist the whole loving community of helpers that do their part to put together a great wedding.